tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2827667427529222393.post1619666286390826117..comments2024-03-06T07:55:24.146-07:00Comments on lester lou and the aarons too: Just UsLesliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03166451736632622252noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2827667427529222393.post-33869828394056755402009-08-17T10:57:56.828-06:002009-08-17T10:57:56.828-06:00There is no such thing as a perfect mom. There is...There is no such thing as a perfect mom. There is always so much we COULD do that it is easy to feel like a loser mom if we don't do it all. Aaron knows that you love him and that is the most important thing. That kid is so sweet to you.Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10470692642176627392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2827667427529222393.post-53766983026260750932009-08-15T21:02:27.068-06:002009-08-15T21:02:27.068-06:00Hey woman,
I only wish I could tell you how much y...Hey woman,<br />I only wish I could tell you how much your words meet my feelings. I have those same types of days. I also sit at my blog some nights typing away crying my eyes out using it as my outlet. I also have been in a funk feeling more emotional the last couple months questioning alot going on in my life and for my future. I am making some big desicions for the future for Alek and I. I think Randy is guiding me along and as nervous as I am I have to follow my heart. I will be blogging soon about our changes, I already blogged about a few of them. Your an amazing person and mother, I can tell that by looking at your smile and reading your posts. Stay Strong, have your melt downs, keep smiling, most of all just keel living for that little man. That is all I live for is Alek, he deserves it. AND GUESS WHAT we all get to busy at times to pay attention to some of their needs its alright it makes them a bit more independent, which we want for them.<br />Love to you<br />Hope to be in touch with you more and I am glad you are blogging more again, it helps to read your posts. And Leslie I am doing what you told me to do a while back right after I lost Randy you said to get through the first year you have to create New Memories, Alek and I have been doing that. We try to do 1 thing a month, it has helped a great deal. THANK YOU <br />KateKate, Alek, Hank, and Cash (RIP RED)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06296825544951927305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2827667427529222393.post-19922752692301025492009-08-15T20:02:39.768-06:002009-08-15T20:02:39.768-06:00We are here for you. Strangers we may be, your emo...We are here for you. Strangers we may be, your emotions are human. Keep 'em coming!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742197630363973158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2827667427529222393.post-21149532304913056762009-08-15T15:35:23.702-06:002009-08-15T15:35:23.702-06:00Leslie,
Thanks again for a sobering reminder of wh...Leslie,<br />Thanks again for a sobering reminder of what is important in life. As I continue my daily struggle watching my own dear husband die of cancer I am often left with the feeling of not being the kind of mother I would want to be. I know it is natural and normal to feel those feelings. You give me strenghth everyday to continue to battle on and keep trying. Thanks again for all you post. I love your emotional venting. It helps.<br />Love <br />Steph<br />Kennynin@aim.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2827667427529222393.post-29809542671137915422009-08-15T06:38:32.657-06:002009-08-15T06:38:32.657-06:00I know that you said that you didn't need comm...I know that you said that you didn't need comments Leslie, But I am going to anyway.<br /><br />I have not suffered the loss you have. But I do have the same feelings of guilt and regret that you do, when my precious kids ask me to play and I say that I am too busy, or "I will soon". It is part of your dual role of being a Mummy and being an independent person. Sometimes I just need some time to do what I want when I want, even when I know that I will regret not spending that 10 minutes playing exactly when they want me to.<br /><br />It doesn't make me a bad mother. And it doesn't make you one either. It is human. It is natural. It is normal. We have selfish moments - and sometimes we need them.<br /><br />You have enough in your life to worry about without adding this to it.<br /><br />So stop. <br /><br />Love to you,<br /><br />JaneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com